Traditional dictionary definitions of fornication and adultery generally define fornication as sexual relationships between unmarried people and adultery as a sexual relationship between two people in which at least one of the people involved is married to someone else. Both fornication and adultery are considered sinful in Scripture. However, the Bible is also clear that God provides forgiveness for these sins and offers new life to those who will trust in Him.
God calls us to live pure lives, honoring Him through our bodies and relationships. We are all called to sexual purity and to set our hearts on God’s desires rather than worldly passions (1 Thessalonians 4:3–4). For those who are single, this means abstaining from sexual activity. For those who are married, God calls us to faithfulness, upholding the sacredness of the marriage covenant and protecting it from the destruction that comes from adultery (Hebrews 13:4). Whether single or married, we must all guard our thoughts and our hearts, knowing that sexual sin is not merely a matter of intercourse but also of the mind and heart.
Both fornication and adultery are sins because they distort God’s design and go against His good ways. Marriage is an image of Christ and the church (Ephesians 5:31–32) and a metaphor God often used in the Old Testament to describe His relationship with His people. Sex is designed for one man and one woman in the covenant of marriage (Genesis 2:24). Sex outside of those boundaries distorts the image of God’s relationship with His people, thereby giving us a false view of Him. Adultery and fornication also distort His design for marital intimacy and undermine the trust and love He intends for human relationships. When we choose purity, we reflect God’s holiness and experience the freedom and wholeness that come from living according to His perfect will. When we have distorted God’s good design and broken trust by engaging in sexual sin, God has grace. We can receive His forgiveness and restoration, and move forward in purity and freedom.