While the Bible nowhere mentions masturbation, and, thus, does not specifically state whether or not it is a sin, there are plenty of truths found in Scripture that help us determine if masturbation is a sin. Masturbation often involves lustful thoughts, sexual impurity, and self-gratification, which contradict verses like Ephesians 5:3 and Matthew 5:27–30. Sex was created as a gift within the marriage relationship between one man and one woman and was meant to be experienced as a selfless act of love toward one’s spouse (1 Corinthians 7:2–5). Selflessness and self-control are essential in handling sexual desires (Galatians 5:22–23). However, masturbation removes relationships from the equation and instead is self-gratification, often rooted in lust. When talking about masturbation, we must also address the root sins involved—lust, lack of self-control, and immoral thoughts. Regardless, masturbation is not unforgivable; like all sin, it should be confessed and turned from in pursuit of a life that glorifies God (1 John 1:9). God’s plans in His timing and His way for all things, including our sexuality, is best.
When the Bible does not specifically deal with an issue, general biblical principles must be applied. With the question of whether or not masturbation is a sin, several principles definitely relate:
(1) We are to avoid lustful/immoral thoughts (Matthew 5:27).
(2) There is not to be even a hint of sexual impurity in our lives (Ephesians 5:3).
(3) We should not do anything that we cannot do for the glory of God (1 Corinthians 10:31).
(4) We should not do anything that we are not fully convinced is good and right (Romans 14:23).
(5) Our bodies belong to God, not to us (1 Corinthians 6:19–20).
(6) Sex was created to be experienced in relationship with one’s spouse (1 Corinthians 7:2–5).
If an action is not in agreement with the above principles, it should not be done. Is there ever a time when masturbation can be in line with all these principles? It is hard to say, but for the most part, justification for masturbation cannot be made.
What is most interesting about the "is masturbation a sin" question is the fact that more attention is given to the act itself (which the Bible does not explicitly say is a sin), rather than the things that almost always lead to masturbation (which the Bible does declare to be sinful). The sins of lust, immoral thoughts, lack of self-control or patience, and pornography are what almost always cause the temptation/urge to masturbate. Rather than focusing on the final act, so to speak, more attention should be paid to overcoming the sins that lead to masturbation. Whether or not masturbation itself is a sin, and whether or not other sinful acts were involved, masturbation is not an unforgivable sin, nor should it lead to debilitating guilt and shame. Rather, just like all other sins, it should be confessed to God (1 John 1:9) and wholeheartedly turned from.