The Greek language has terms for four different types of love. These four types of love are
eros
,
phileo
,
agape
, and
storge
. Although only two of these types of love are used in the New Testament (
phileo
and
agape
), it is important to understand how all of them work as compared to each other.
Phileo
love is brotherly love, while
eros
love is sexual love, which we see displayed in Song of Solomon.
Agape
love is self-sacrificial, the greatest example being when Christ died for us.
Storge
love is natural, unforced, familial love; a great example of
storge
love is the love that a parent has for a child.
The opposite of
storge
,
astorgos
, is used twice in the New Testament. The definition of
astorgos
is "devoid of natural or instinctive affection, without affection to kindred." In 2 Timothy 3:3 it is translated as "heartless" or "without love." In context, Paul is describing "times of difficulty" in the last days. One characteristic is that people will lack
storge
love for their families.
Astorgos
is also found in Romans 1:31, which says that sinful humanity is "heartless" or has "no love" or in its Greek translation,
astorgos
.
Another version of the term
storge
is found in Romans 12:10. This version of
storge
is the compound
philostorgos
, which means to "be devoted." Literally, this compound is broken down to mean "to love one's kindred." Romans 12:10 calls Christians to "Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor." Although
philostorgos
is only used once in the New Testament, God repeats His command that we must love one another because, as believers, we are all part of His family.