King Lemuel is mentioned only in Proverbs 31, where his mother imparts advice on chastity, justice, mercy, and temperance. Though nothing else is known about him in the Bible, this advice might extend to the end of the book, which is fitting as it talks about the kind of woman he was to find. If Lemuel is Solomon, his mother's counsel on finding a virtuous wife aligns with Solomon's struggles with multiple wives. The passage emphasizes wise leadership, defending the oppressed, and warns against indulgence. It highlights the importance of integrity and compassion in leadership and personal conduct.
If Lemuel is indeed Solomon, and considering that Solomon had numerous wives and concubines, it is fitting that his mother would give him advice about women and how to find a virtuous wife. Verses 10–31 of the proverb list the attributes and character qualities of the kind of wife who would be an asset to any man, but especially to a king who needs wisdom in the choice of one who would influence him.
If the mother in this proverb is Bathsheba, she had first-hand knowledge of the danger that multiple wives can be for a ruler. First Kings 11 describes the sad result of Solomon ignoring his mother's advice. Despite God's warnings not to take wives from foreign nations, Solomon did exactly that, and his wives turned his heart away from God (1 Kings 11:1–13).
Regardless, the advice given to King Lemuel, as recorded in Proverbs 31:1–9, emphasizes the importance of wise leadership and justice. He is urged to uphold justice for the oppressed, defend the rights of the poor and needy, and to speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves. Lemuel's mother advises him against indulgence in excess, particularly warning against the dangers of alcohol and unwise women, which can cloud judgment.