Who was Lillith / Lilith? Did Adam have another wife before Eve?

TL;DR:

Lilith is a mythological character claimed to be Adam’s first wife. Lilith is not found in the Bible and was never Adam’s wife.

Lilith is a mythological character purported to have been Adam's first wife. The Bible contains no such account nor even hints at such a possibility. According to the legend, Lilith was headstrong and independent, and didn't want to submit to Adam, so she divorced him.

The legend of Lilith originated in the last chapter of the Epic of Gilgamesh—a chapter which was probably not original to the rest of the text. In the story, the goddess Inanna finds a tree in a river and plants it in her garden. She cares for it for ten years, but finds that it's been infested with "the serpent who could not be charmed," "the Anzu-bird," and "the dark maid Lilith." Inanna cannot get rid of the squatters, so she asks her brother Gilgamesh. He strikes the serpent, leading the Anzu-bird to flee with its young and Lilith to smash her home and escape to "the wild, uninhabited places." Gilgamesh chops up the tree and makes a throne and a bed for Inanna.

The only verified part of Lilith is that she was a character in ancient Sumerian/Akkadian folklore. Any "evidence" found in the Bible is easily dismissed. The bulk of literature defining her role in history comes from Kabbalah—a Jewish-based cult. In short, Lilith was a figure of ancient mythology who has since been used to represent death to innocents, sexual predation on men, and feminist independence. She was never real, and she certainly was never married to Adam.

from the old testament

It's possible that the Bible references Lilith as a pagan character. Isaiah 34:14 reads, "And wild animals shall meet with hyenas; the wild goat shall cry to his fellow; indeed, there the night bird settles and finds for herself a resting place." The night bird (some translations say "screech owl") is the Hebrew Liyliyth. It is derived from layil, which means "night." "Lilith," literally, means "night maid," so it's unclear if the verse refers to the Sumerian goddess or if it's a poetic way to describe a female nocturnal bird.
Some argue for Lilith's existence by pointing to the seeming conflict between Genesis 1 and 2. In Genesis 1:27, God creates male and female. But Genesis 2:18–25 tells the story of the creation of Eve. Genesis 1 is a synopsis of the six days of creation while Genesis 2 gives more detail into the sixth day when God created Adam and Eve. But some try to read the chapters as straight chronology. Genesis 1:27, they wrongly say, refers to Lilith.

from the new testament

Lilith is not mentioned in the New Testament.

implications for today

The myth of Lilith provides a valuable reminder of the importance of discernment and critical thinking when approaching ancient texts and legends. While intriguing, the story of Lilith as Adam's first wife is not supported by biblical accounts. It only emerges from ancient Sumerian/Akkadian folklore and later interpretations in Kabbalistic texts. This myth illustrates how narratives can evolve over time, shaped by cultural and religious perspectives. It encourages us to engage with what we read and hear, giving careful consideration to textual origin and context so as to avoid conflating myth with biblical truth.

understand

Lilith is a mythological figure from ancient Sumerian and Akkadian folklore, not found in the Bible.
Lilith is often portrayed as Adam's first wife who refused to submit to him.
Lilith's story evolved through cultural interpretations, particularly in Kabbalistic and medieval Jewish texts, shaping her as a symbol of independence and sometimes associated with negative attributes like death and sexual predation.

reflect

It's crucial to rely on what the Bible explicitly states to discern truth, as it serves as our foundational source of guidance and understanding. While the Bible may not address every detail, we must prioritize its teachings over speculative or unsubstantiated claims.
How does the evolution of Lilith's story through different cultural interpretations influence your perspective on myth, folklore, and biblical beliefs?
How does the way that the myth of Lilith has been used throughout history to address societal issues or advocate for specific ideologies challenge you or encourage you to search and know God’s Word for the truth?

engage

The Aleppo National Museum is in possession of an amulet with the engraving of a sphinx and a she-wolf that includes the words "O, Demoness-that-flies in a dark chamber, Get on your way at once, O Lili!" The amulet is thought to be Syrian, from the 6th or 7th century BC, but it's also possible it's a forgery from the 1930s.
Extra-biblical writings of Judaism hold to this account. The midrash Genesis Rabba (AD 300—500) infers that Adam had a first wife. The Babylonian Talmud says that Lilith has wings, that she can cause birth defects, that she is a succubus, and that she used the nocturnal emissions of sleeping men to conceive demon babies. The first text that clearly connects Lilith as Adam's first wife is The Alphabet of Ben Sira. In this text, Lilith is said to have left Adam when he demanded she be submissive in sex. When Adam asked angels to bring her back, she said she wouldn't. The angels told her they would kill her demon children, so she responded that she would in turn kill the babies of the descendants of Adam. Further legend says that she is responsible for diphtheria, stillborn children, and babies who die of SIDS. It was a short leap to go from Lilith as "night maid" to "night hag," and blame her for sleep paralysis. Some, including Michelangelo, associate her with the serpent that tempted Eve. In this incarnation, she is the wife of Satan and provides the body so that he can be the voice that talks to Eve.
More recently, feminists and New Agers have claimed Lilith as a role model. They praise her independence and sexual freedom and use her as an example when refusing to submit to their husbands. She has leant her name to "Lilith Fair," a touring concert of female singers and female-led bands, and Lilith Magazine, a Jewish feminist magazine.