Insecurity is a feeling of uncertainty or lack of confidence in oneself, often rooted in fear of judgment, failure, or rejection. It can manifest in various areas of life, such as self-image, relationships, or abilities, leading to anxiety or self-doubt. When we are insecure, we allow a lack of confidence or trust in ourselves to overtake our trust in God. Insecurity can come from the Devil trying to cause us to doubt God’s goodness, from difficulties in our lives, from comparison, or from worrying about the future. But regardless of its source, insecurity often comes down to this: we are looking to the things of the world to satisfy us, and not the things of God (1 John 2:15; Colossians 3:1–4). God alone offers us true security (Isaiah 28:16; Matthew 7:24). When we put our trust in God, we need not be insecure.
Sometimes we start to feel insecure because we look to other people, our own status, our possessions, or accumulation of wealth to supply us security. Our worldly status and earthly possessions are inherently insecure. Neither were human relationships—even the most loving and stable among them—designed to give us full satisfaction or complete security. Sometimes we feel insecure because we compare our self-evaluation with our evaluation of others. Yet often when we look deeper into the lives of those who seem to "have everything" from a worldly perspective, we find that not everything is as it seems from the outside. There simply is no lasting security in possessions, money, status, or human relationships. The only thing that can give us security is God Himself. He is able to provide for all of our needs be they spiritual, emotional, physical, relational, or something else. God’s provision may not always look the way we would prefer it to, but we can trust that He created us and knows what is best for us. When we rest in Him, we are meaningfully secure.