what does the bible say?
Not finishing first, falling short, and generally losing are all forms of failure, but really the only failure is when we don't learn, when we don't rebound, when we don't try again, and when we don’t turn to God. Some Christians fall into a trap, believing that because they are in a relationship with God, they cannot, or should not, fail. However, the Bible tells us that God uses even suffering and failure for our sanctification and His glory. Failures and suffering build into us character (Job 14:1; Romans 5:3–6; James 1:2–4), shaping us into His likeness, reminding us of our dependence on Him, and allowing us to reflect His glory to the world.